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Day 13 – A Leader Who Prays

Day 13 – A Leader Who Prays

“But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.”

No leader can faithfully serve God without prayer.

Prayer is not simply something we do before making an important decision, beginning a meeting, or facing a difficult situation.

Prayer is how we live in continual dependence upon God.

The busier life becomes, the easier it is to neglect prayer.

Responsibilities increase.

Schedules become crowded.

People need our attention.

Decisions need to be made.

Problems need to be solved.

And gradually, we can begin trying to carry responsibilities that God never intended us to carry in our own strength.

Yet Scripture teaches us the opposite.

The greater our responsibilities, the greater our need to seek the Lord.

Prayer reminds us that God is the source of our wisdom, strength, guidance, and peace.

It keeps our hearts humble.

It aligns our desires with His will.

It teaches us to rely upon His grace rather than our own abilities.

A praying leader is a dependent leader.

And a dependent leader is one who continually recognises that they need God.

The Shepherd does not call us to lead independently of Him. He calls us to remain close to Him.

No one walked more closely with the Father than Jesus Christ.

Yet throughout His earthly ministry, He continually withdrew to pray.

Luke tells us:

“But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.”

Before choosing the twelve apostles, Jesus spent time in prayer.

Before important moments in His ministry, He sought the Father.

When crowds were looking for Him, He sometimes withdrew to quiet places rather than allowing the demands of people to determine His every movement.

And before going to the cross, He prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane.

Jesus’ prayer life reveals something profound.

He did not allow public ministry to replace private fellowship with the Father.

His relationship with the Father was not an occasional part of His life.

It shaped everything He did.

Jesus was not praying because He was spiritually weak or uncertain of the Father’s character.

He prayed as the incarnate Son in perfect fellowship with the Father, willingly submitting Himself to the Father’s will in the mission He had come to accomplish.

In Gethsemane, His prayer revealed the depth of His obedience:

“Not My will, but Yours be done.”

Prayer and obedience were deeply connected.

Jesus teaches us that true spiritual leadership flows from communion with God.

Before public ministry, there was private dependence.

Before great moments, there was prayer.

Before the cross, there was surrender.

If Jesus made prayer a priority in His earthly ministry, how much more should we?

Nehemiah is a remarkable example of prayerful leadership.

When he heard that Jerusalem’s walls were broken down and its gates had been burned, his first response was not immediately to organise workers or create a strategy.

He sat down, wept, mourned, fasted and he prayed.

Nehemiah confessed the sins of his people and reminded himself of God’s promises.

He sought God’s mercy and favour.

He asked God for wisdom and an opportunity to act.

But Nehemiah did not simply pray and then refuse to act.

His prayer prepared him to act faithfully.

When the opportunity came to speak with King Artaxerxes, Nehemiah prayed silently before answering.

This is an important picture of prayerful leadership.

Prayer did not replace action.

Prayer directed action.

Godly leaders seek the Lord before they seek solutions.

Prayer should not be our last resort after every human option has failed.

It should be part of how we approach the situation from the beginning.

Prayer changes more than our circumstances.

It changes us.

As we spend time with God, our fears are replaced with trust.

Our pride is replaced with humility.

Our anxiety is replaced with peace.

Our selfish ambitions are replaced with a desire to glorify Christ.

Prayer reminds us that leadership is not about accomplishing our own plans.

It is about participating in God’s work.

The more we seek Him, the more our hearts become aligned with His purposes.

A leader who prays consistently learns to listen as well as speak.

God still guides His people through His Word, by His Holy Spirit, and according to His perfect will.

Leadership can be exhausting.

People may misunderstand us.

Decisions may carry consequences.

Conflict may arise.

Responsibilities may become heavy.

There may be moments when we feel inadequate.

Prayer gives us somewhere to bring that weight.

God invites us to cast our anxieties upon Him because He cares for us.

He gives wisdom to those who ask.

He strengthens those who depend upon Him.

He provides peace that does not depend upon circumstances being perfect.

This does not mean that prayer makes leadership easy.

It means that we do not have to carry leadership alone.

When we pray, we acknowledge:

“Lord, I need You.”

That is not weakness.

That is biblical leadership.

A leader who refuses to acknowledge their dependence upon God will eventually begin depending upon themselves.

But a leader who continually returns to God learns where true strength is found.

Our confidence is not:

“I can handle everything.”

Our confidence is:

“God is with me, and I need Him.”

Prayer is not limited to certain times or places.

We can seek the Lord throughout the day.

Before making decisions.

Before difficult conversations.

Before serving others.

Before facing temptation.

In moments of joy.

In seasons of sorrow.

Scripture encourages us to “pray without ceasing.”

This does not mean speaking constantly without doing anything else.

It means living with continual awareness of God’s presence and continual dependence upon Him.

A praying leader invites God into every part of life.

Prayer must never become separated from Scripture.

We do not simply speak to God according to whatever we happen to feel.

God has already spoken through His Word.

The Bible shapes what we pray for.

Scripture teaches us God’s character.

It reveals His promises.

It exposes our sin.

It gives us wisdom.

It teaches us what pleases Him.

It corrects our desires.

This is why prayer and Scripture belong together.

We pray according to God’s truth.

We allow His Word to shape our requests.

We ask Him to help us obey what He has commanded.

We bring His promises before Him with confidence.

A leader who prays but does not allow Scripture to shape their thinking can easily turn prayer into a way of asking God to bless their own plans.

But a leader who prays while submitting to God’s Word learns to seek God’s will above personal preference.

Prayer says:

“Lord, what do You want?”

Scripture helps us understand what He has already revealed.

Together, they teach us to walk faithfully.

Throughout Scripture, faithful leaders were people of prayer.

Moses prayed.

David prayed.

Nehemiah prayed.

The apostles prayed.

Most importantly, Jesus continually prayed.

Their example reminds us that lasting influence begins in the presence of God.

May we never become so busy serving the Lord that we neglect spending time with Him.

For the greatest work a leader can do is to remain close to the Shepherd whose voice they are called to follow.

Take a moment to examine your prayer life honestly.

Ask yourself:

  • Is prayer my first response when I face difficulty, or my last resort?
  • Do I seek God’s guidance before making important decisions?
  • Am I willing to surrender my plans when they conflict with God’s revealed will?
  • Is my prayer life shaped by Scripture?
  • Has leadership responsibility become so important that my relationship with Christ has been neglected?
  • Am I praying for God’s glory, or mainly for my own success and comfort?
  • Do I pray for the people I am responsible for leading and serving?

Today, set aside intentional time to pray without rushing.

Then ask: “Lord, what needs to change in me?”

Remember:

Let your leadership flow from a life that depends upon God.